Originally Posted by Sandee
Wow, thank you for that advice. My husband is Dutch but I am French. He seems to be really trying, but I am so skeptical, do you think people can change?
You're dutch? Small world. I was born in Rotterdam.
Sandee I do think that people can change. It usually takes some sort of cross-road or ultimatum like an impending divorce.
The question you have to ask yourself is this: Let's say your husband does change and things become tolerable, are you going to be able to fall back in love with him? There is a good chance that even if he changes and becomes everything you want him to overnight, that you will hold such resentment and anger towards him for everything he put you through; and I say this from personal experience. It's like that saying too little too late.
Those are some of the questions that only you can answer