Your marriage seems to provide a lot of benefits to him, but not to you. He doesn't seem to respect you or treat you well. Leave him and find someone who will treat you better.
"He who accepts evil without protesting against it is really cooperating with it." -Martin Luther King, Jr.
"“We first crush people to the earth, & then claim the right of trampling on them forever, because they are prostrate." -Lydia Maria Child.