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swedish · 06-17-2008, 06:14 PM

If you are able to swing it, I would recommend hiring someone to clean your house once a week to take some of the load off of both of you (if you haven't already) and start going out, just the two of you, at least once a week if you can get a sitter.

She probably isn't making up excuses for not having sex. She's probably just worn out and unless she's feeling emotionally connected to you, is not in the mood. Sleep can sound better than sex when you're feeling stressed and worn out.

06-17-2008, 06:14 PM	#4 (permalink)
swedish Moderator Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Near Chicago Posts: 1,115	Re: Is it me or her? If you are able to swing it, I would recommend hiring someone to clean your house once a week to take some of the load off of both of you (if you haven't already) and start going out, just the two of you, at least once a week if you can get a sitter. She probably isn't making up excuses for not having sex. She's probably just worn out and unless she's feeling emotionally connected to you, is not in the mood. Sleep can sound better than sex when you're feeling stressed and worn out.