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Amituffenuff · 06-17-2008, 06:33 PM

Ok, I told a friend I would try this out and maybe it will help.
My wife and I have been married for 19 years and best friends throughout. We have always been that couple that everyone wants to be....
Last month I discovered she and one of my good friends have been having an affair for a couple of months.
I am a very successfull business man and family man. I have always been able to handle anything that has come my way.

This one completely wiped me out.

I am still trying to figure out how to cope and how to save my marriage (if that is the best thing to do).
We have two childeren, 14 and 11. She says she desperately wants to work it out and it was just a tough time in our life that led to this. But it is very hard for me to deal with the lies and betrayal that took place.

Not sure how to get through this one....

I would love to hear any advice from people that have made it work and how they did it..
Thanks

06-17-2008, 06:33 PM	#1 (permalink)
Amituffenuff Registered User Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 2	My wife and my friend had an affair Ok, I told a friend I would try this out and maybe it will help. My wife and I have been married for 19 years and best friends throughout. We have always been that couple that everyone wants to be.... Last month I discovered she and one of my good friends have been having an affair for a couple of months. I am a very successfull business man and family man. I have always been able to handle anything that has come my way. This one completely wiped me out. I am still trying to figure out how to cope and how to save my marriage (if that is the best thing to do). We have two childeren, 14 and 11. She says she desperately wants to work it out and it was just a tough time in our life that led to this. But it is very hard for me to deal with the lies and betrayal that took place. Not sure how to get through this one.... I would love to hear any advice from people that have made it work and how they did it.. Thanks Last edited by Amituffenuff; 06-18-2008 at 01:12 AM.