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BlueCreek · 06-17-2008, 08:34 PM

I am afraid that there is very little constructive advice that I can give you. I love my wife as much as I possibly could, but if I discovered she was having an affair, I honestly do not think I could ever get past it in order to save our marriage. The total betrayal of love and trust makes it the one thing in this world I don't think I could survive.

But my own personal "issues" aside, many many people are able to rediscover their love and trust and save their marriages after one spouse cheats on the other.

All I can say is that my thoughts are with you in these tough times. I can only guess at how difficult this must be for you, and I wish you the best of luck figuring out where you go from here. I do think this is a good starting place for you as there are people here who have had to deal with similar problems and I'm sure they can offer good advice, but I would also seriously consider finding professional help.

PS> Good luck restraining yourself and not kicking your "friend's" butt every time you see him.

06-17-2008, 08:34 PM	#2 (permalink)
BlueCreek Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Southern California Posts: 77	Re: My wife and my friend had an affair I am afraid that there is very little constructive advice that I can give you. I love my wife as much as I possibly could, but if I discovered she was having an affair, I honestly do not think I could ever get past it in order to save our marriage. The total betrayal of love and trust makes it the one thing in this world I don't think I could survive. But my own personal "issues" aside, many many people are able to rediscover their love and trust and save their marriages after one spouse cheats on the other. All I can say is that my thoughts are with you in these tough times. I can only guess at how difficult this must be for you, and I wish you the best of luck figuring out where you go from here. I do think this is a good starting place for you as there are people here who have had to deal with similar problems and I'm sure they can offer good advice, but I would also seriously consider finding professional help. PS> Good luck restraining yourself and not kicking your "friend's" butt every time you see him.