Re: My wife and my friend had an affair
First thing I would suggest is a good marriage councilor. Right now you feel hurt and betrayed (and you should.) But to judge such a life changing decision without understanding might just set you up to fail later. You need to get to a point of honest communication with her. She needs to live a transparent life so you can build trust. She needs to cut all ties with this "friend".
For your own sake start to keep a journal of how you feel, it helps. Another thing is look at hobbies and things you always wanted to do for yourself or with your kids, this can ease the emotional part of bveing betrayed.
Still make time for her and talk (not yell) as much as you can with her.
I will pray for you tonight. I wish you the best.
draconis
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