Originally Posted by mistyd

hi all,

I am new here and dont know where to start. I was told a week ago that hubby was supposed to have cheated on me. The girl in question has been caught before lying about doing things with people that really didnt happen. I have caught her in some of her lies before. Hubby had witnesses that said nothing happened and when I questioned them, everyone of them told me the same story he told me. I called the girl and told her that if she did have sex with him should would know the answers to the questions I was gonna ask her. I ask her what color underwear he had she told me white. which is lie one.
I ask about tattooes, scars, birthmarks, etc....she just said it was dark. Now I am thinking that if I slept with a married man, I am gonna know something about him that way I could tell it if asked about it. I asked her about certain sounds he did after sex because I have been with him for 15 years and he hasnt changed the things he does after sex since I have been with him. She told me he snorted like a pig, which I have never heard him do that. He has two very distinct things he has done for 15 years and I dont know why after that long that he would change them. My gut says nothing happened, its just that it grates on my nerves to think that they are people out there that would do something like that and that there are people stupid enough to believe her. She told me that her family all believed her but you have too look at the family. It is one where the girls' grandmother told her own daughter it was alright to have sex with her father. So of course they are gonna believe it.

Anyones input would greatly be appreciated. Thanks so much for listening.