Originally Posted by hitrockbottom

I would say...not to stress the Sex...the more I pushed my wife the less she wanted it. She said that once you put too much emphasis on it, it starts to turn into a chore instead of something you want to do.

hmm the past things...I would ask her not to talk about them around you...atleast the sexual things.....its just out of respect in my opinion...I don't talk about my past conquest w/my wife unless it is brought up. Even then it is just talking about weird places that we've done it....but all in all I would say avoid talking about it....atleast in mixed company

As for the rest? I don't have kids sorry...well my own kids I am raising my nephews....but I try and split that 50/50 when needed.