| | Re: Please help - Verbal abuse issue - long
I think your husband is a jerk. Sorry but it is what it is. He's acting like a child instead of like a loving husband.
He is treating you like a hired employee. Kids will fall and get hurt. Live with it. That's how they learn.
You need to sit him down and lay down the boundary. Tell him you don't want your son growing up with the stress of seeing parents in conflict. Tell him that his verbal unkindness is killing feelings inside you and you need his help in rekindling the relationship for both of you.
He may love you but his actions are killing that love. Either he fixes it, or you need to move on.
And kicking you in the butt? Tell him in no uncertain term that if it happens again, you will walk immediately. That is a boundary that MUST NOT be crossed ever again.