Originally Posted by justean

well done on losing the weight, you have made a start. unfortuately weight gain does not go in 5 minutes, unless your jennifer lopez. but talk to hubby again. get back in the same bed. find out if its what he really wants.
thats your start.
after my 2nd child i could not shift the weight. 18 months later stil down in dumps.
i got on scales and within 6 weeks lost a stone.
i can tell you love your hubby, but his concern is your weight, not n e thing else it seems.
so focus on that issue, obviously you have to do it for yourself ( if weight is making you unhappy) .
you might not win him back until its resolved.
so heres what i did to lose weight.
breakfast in am , breakfast for dinner and a cooked meal for tea.
or breakfast in am and a pink and white wafer for dinner and again a cooked meal for tea.
whenever i see my weight go up, i go back to that system every time.
i am a size 10/12. dont know wht that is, where your from .
but you can do it.
i dont do gyms. but i put the music on in my house (full blast) and dance. so you reduce calories and increase exercise.
nobody sees u in your home and you can do it til your hearts content.

do this every day with the breakfast and just tell your husband you need him to be there for you. sex is also good for reducing calories. have fun whilst your losing weight.