| | Re: My wife and my friend had an affair
Your world is upside down and of course you probably don’t even know which direction is up at this point. Marriages do come back from affairs but you will likely have a long road ahead of you. As stated above seek counsel. This is an area you are unlikely to be able to address on your own. Your wife must end all contact with your friend as you should, he is no friend. She must earn your trust back so she must accept your conditions of openness to you. Communication will be key. With time and distance you’ll get your feet back under you and begin to see things more clearly. Your marriage has taken the wickedest of shots here so take that time to sort things out. While my wife’s affair was emotional, not physical we have greatly improved our marriage over the last year. Take your time and move forward together to try and salvage the marriage and reconnect as a couple. My best to you both.
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