sundevil

Thanks for the insight. I thought things were bad; however, it appears it may be somewhat normal. The chore or tasks can be fixed which should help.

I think the high school think for her friend may be the "best" times for her and thus she keeps remembering those times. I reached out per one of the e-mails to a former high school friend of hers per (Jealousy Thread) who she keeps raving about and explained why I had backed away from our friendship and he advised that I have nothing to worry about. That seemed to work.

It seems as though my wife talks about old times to get my goat if you will and I have to tell you it does work. I don't talk about my past as it doesn't matter. I do believe she is not honest about her partners (numbers) and her stories so I move forward; however, she doesn't.

My gut still tells me I shouldn't trust her as a result of these statements; however, nothing strong to give the "gut" feeling much credit. It just is a sense and the way she talks.

I suggested counseling just to discuss and air our issues; however, she agrees without a strong sense of ownership.

Any thoughts?