Re: afraid there's no hope
I believe love is a feeling or rather an emotion that drives us moire then any other. I have had relationships that love kept together when there was little else until issues could be resolved. If true love had not been there then it would have ended there and then because there would have been nothing at all.
It really takes two to commit to a relationship. Even if one partner isn't "into it" then the other can do nothing to hold the relationship together no matter how much they try.
If each person can only put in 50 parts and it takes atleast 50 parts to hold together a relationship then by scale one partner putting in all they have can only keep things coasting. Like everything there are times when we can't give something are all. If only one person does all they can as soon as they can't or slack off it is all done.
As far as the regaining love part I believe love can be rekindled but it boils down to one thing both of you wanting it. It seems like you have the passion, but at least for now he doesn't.
I wish you all the best of luck and hope things change for the best. Counsiling can't hurt either.
draconis
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