Healing

Do you know how she feels about it?

You talk about all the things you are doing and the things you have sacrificed for her/your kids. She has done alot and sacrificed alot too.

While you are at work, with work friends and sexy females to meet, she is at home with 2 babies and no adults to talk to, nothing to feel ambitious about or work for except her kids and redecorating the house.

While you gave up drinks and card games and golf with the guys, she gave up her drinks and shopping trips with the girls. She has given up the time she could have spent prettifying herself for her children and home. Women want to look and feel good too.

Maybe she feels resentful as well of how she has done all this for you and the family and you just pull away from her because she now doesn't look sexy and attractive.

Its never an easy thing, maybe you guys just need to sit down and really trash this out.