justean

having had some of those experiences you have had, but over a shorter period of time,. i promise you it wont even get better.
i got rid of my 1st hubby, lies and deceit all the time. we were married for only 15 months ( together 6.5 yrs). he was having an affair last 6 months of that and even after the split.
for which i filed for divorce straight away.
the rat bag left with with a £2000 loan and then bought a car and put it against my house ( bare in mind at this point ) he had officially left our house at this point and was living with the girl he had been having the affair with.
the quicker i put in the divorce file, the better it was in hindsight.
but you still might get trouble - it took 2 years to get my ex to sign the divorce papers.... couldnt let go. but im the one that smiling now.
i think you already know, he has to go.
leaving you stranded, financially and emotionally.
but hes the wally not you.
but thats how i did it. i just filed for divorce as soon as i found out about the affair - it was the straw that broke the camels back.
there is only so much you can take.