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Originally Posted by Anna
It's been lies, deceit, disloyalty, abandonment. We have been in counseling with a therapist and a priest for years. He continues to behave in such a way as to not being believed.
I have lost respect for him and cannot fathom another day.
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It definitely sounds odd with the money disappearing in that way...gambling addiction or some commitments he's not made you aware of...but something's up with that.
You sound like an intelligent, caring woman so don't beat yourself up for being the good person you are. I don't blame you for being done with this situation. I would recommend talking to a lawyer so you can get a solid plan together that will work out best for you. I would definitely keep any written documentation of his strange bank behavior in case there is a chance you can recover that from him since you had to borrow from family to pay that off. Lay low until you have yourself set up...it should be all about you for a change.
You are not an idiot. There are plenty of people out there that would appreciate and not take advantage of your loyalty and kindness. Take care of YOU now.