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hitrockbottom · 06-19-2008, 03:27 PM

hmm...

First I would say not to get into your wifes emails, messages, or profile if you don't really want to find what you think is there. If however you know your willing to accept what you find, I say tread lightly over thin ice.
If you don't find anything, and it doesn't seem as you have, your mind will start to create this "emotional baggage" it will come as Jealousy and you will start to become controlling. Maybe even shut down. You will form a wall that will be next to impossible to break down....which is where I am at....don't let your self get to this point.

Talk to your wife, open up, and then take her for her word. If you want to ease your mind QUIT SNOOPING.

06-19-2008, 03:27 PM	#3 (permalink)
hitrockbottom Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 177	Re: Secret Marital Relations hmm... First I would say not to get into your wifes emails, messages, or profile if you don't really want to find what you think is there. If however you know your willing to accept what you find, I say tread lightly over thin ice. If you don't find anything, and it doesn't seem as you have, your mind will start to create this "emotional baggage" it will come as Jealousy and you will start to become controlling. Maybe even shut down. You will form a wall that will be next to impossible to break down....which is where I am at....don't let your self get to this point. Talk to your wife, open up, and then take her for her word. If you want to ease your mind QUIT SNOOPING.