gjko

I'm in a very similar circumstance... I don't know why loves to start big blow-out fights, then immediately go into sex. After fighting, I feel exhausted, and after post-fight sex, I feel withdrawn and used.

I sincerely feel for you in your situation. I don't believe it is drugs, in my situation (or yours, for that matter), I do believe it is a certain fascination with "dramatic" sex, coupled with a sincere desire to "make things better". It truly is amazing how men communicate through sex.