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mountaincountry · 06-19-2008, 09:19 PM

Well......... as an update...... I was finally able to bring up the subject with her through the wonders of text messaging.Seems to be the only way to communicate.( she is currently out of town and has been for 5 weeks...staying with her mother) Apparently she doesn't want to work on it anymore either, but she wants to stay together to avoid hurting the kids. She wants to keep everything as it is ( of course!) and wait till they get older. HMMMMM.....I don't want to hurt them either, I love my girls VERY MUCH!!!!! I am just not convinced that they are better off with us together. Part of me thinks that this is another way of controlling me also.......... I told her that if we did that she would have to get a better job and start helping pay the bills. She said no.
(this brings up another subject.......maybe best for another post?????could get lengthy)

06-19-2008, 09:19 PM	#10 (permalink)
mountaincountry Registered User Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 6	Re: Confusion!! Well......... as an update...... I was finally able to bring up the subject with her through the wonders of text messaging.Seems to be the only way to communicate.( she is currently out of town and has been for 5 weeks...staying with her mother) Apparently she doesn't want to work on it anymore either, but she wants to stay together to avoid hurting the kids. She wants to keep everything as it is ( of course!) and wait till they get older. HMMMMM.....I don't want to hurt them either, I love my girls VERY MUCH!!!!! I am just not convinced that they are better off with us together. Part of me thinks that this is another way of controlling me also.......... I told her that if we did that she would have to get a better job and start helping pay the bills. She said no. (this brings up another subject.......maybe best for another post?????could get lengthy)