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GAsoccerman · 06-20-2008, 01:50 AM

well this is bad, I know a couple where the hubby said he wanted kids, then when they got married he said no he doesn't the women has been depressed since.

I think you should move on, if he does not want kids and you do that is not a good fit.

I personally would have not married my wife if she did not want kids.

I had a GEORGOUS friend who thought she would marry me, but she told me she did not want kids....I crossed her off the list. I ahd another friend where she told me she could not have kids...I crossed her off the list. I had a third friend who wanted kids, but her father was a complete psycho....I crossed her off the list.

My wife wanted the same amount of kids as I did, she had a normal family, she was beautiful and intelligent and had a good sense of humor.

I factored all of these things into the person I was looking for, we dated 7 years while going to college and planning a wedding. If at anytimg if I felt my wife was not a perfect fit for me, I would have called it off. We been married 11 years and and have 3 children.

I would move on before it is too late.

06-20-2008, 01:50 AM	#2 (permalink)
GAsoccerman Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 537	Re: He dosn't want kids..but I do. well this is bad, I know a couple where the hubby said he wanted kids, then when they got married he said no he doesn't the women has been depressed since. I think you should move on, if he does not want kids and you do that is not a good fit. I personally would have not married my wife if she did not want kids. I had a GEORGOUS friend who thought she would marry me, but she told me she did not want kids....I crossed her off the list. I ahd another friend where she told me she could not have kids...I crossed her off the list. I had a third friend who wanted kids, but her father was a complete psycho....I crossed her off the list. My wife wanted the same amount of kids as I did, she had a normal family, she was beautiful and intelligent and had a good sense of humor. I factored all of these things into the person I was looking for, we dated 7 years while going to college and planning a wedding. If at anytimg if I felt my wife was not a perfect fit for me, I would have called it off. We been married 11 years and and have 3 children. I would move on before it is too late.