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Old 11-09-2009, 06:18 AM   #2 (permalink)
MEM11363
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Default Re: Wife never had a great sex drive to begin with

20 years
3 kids

Twice a week on average. Sometimes 3 times - when she is broken - cycling - maybe once that week.

A low libido person has a responsibility to meet their high drive spouse half way. So for us - her drive is 2/3 month, my drive is 15/month. Our compromise is an actual even split at 8/9 times a month.



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Originally Posted by psychocandy View Post
When we first went out if was like twice a week. Even on our honeymoon, we did it like twice. So I guess its something I've always dealt with. Some of you might think I'm mad but she makes up for this in other areas.

Been together 20 years now and got young son. Its got less and less, down to about once every 2/3 months now.

Anyone else get this? We have spoken about it but as she quite fairly says she never did have much of a sex drive....
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