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mommy22 · 11-09-2009, 09:26 AM

It's like salt in the wound. I'm sorry. If it's any consolation, the counselor has a solid point. Her head isn't in it because the other man is still fresh. If she can get him out of the picture as much as possible, there's a fighting chance-- a chance she'll come around.
I hope that's the case.

You know, the fact that she's receptive to a change in shifts and is open about the texts is a positive sign. Maybe she knows in her head what is best but her heart hasn't caught up. If she can physically do the right thing, her heart may catch up.

11-09-2009, 09:26 AM	#5 (permalink)
mommy22 Moderator Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 2,351	Re: Question for those who survived an affair It's like salt in the wound. I'm sorry. If it's any consolation, the counselor has a solid point. Her head isn't in it because the other man is still fresh. If she can get him out of the picture as much as possible, there's a fighting chance-- a chance she'll come around. I hope that's the case. You know, the fact that she's receptive to a change in shifts and is open about the texts is a positive sign. Maybe she knows in her head what is best but her heart hasn't caught up. If she can physically do the right thing, her heart may catch up. __________________ --M22 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud..... it always perseveres.