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Loving Husband · 11-09-2009, 12:18 PM

I know where you have been.. I was everything in my relationship and my wife told me I treated her like the scum on the bottom of my shoe I couldn't get rid of. Yet facts are I was cause I felt like you. I yearned for love and couldn't get it. My wife became depressed and TOOK everything I had. What changed was her leaving me and thinking it was my fault. I worked on the little stuff I did wrong and then my wife finally saw the issues she had and realized how great they damaged the marriage.. All I can tell you is woek on treating her better and talk to her about what you want out of your marriage.

11-09-2009, 12:18 PM	#3 (permalink)
Loving Husband Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 1,162	Re: Hi...and could use some advice I know where you have been.. I was everything in my relationship and my wife told me I treated her like the scum on the bottom of my shoe I couldn't get rid of. Yet facts are I was cause I felt like you. I yearned for love and couldn't get it. My wife became depressed and TOOK everything I had. What changed was her leaving me and thinking it was my fault. I worked on the little stuff I did wrong and then my wife finally saw the issues she had and realized how great they damaged the marriage.. All I can tell you is woek on treating her better and talk to her about what you want out of your marriage.