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TNgirl232 · 11-09-2009, 05:48 PM

Why put off going to counseling? Are you somehow ashamed that you might need help....what if by putting it off you totally screw the whole thing up beyond repair because she reaches her 'enough is enough' point. And believe me - with women we will put up with a lot but once we've reached that point there is almost no going back. Being passive-agressive you need help figuring out how to communicate (believe me I know) and she is codependent from what you wrote - she needs help understanding that she needs her own life - not just to be a 'moon' to your earth. I know the old saying about finding your other half but my husband and I agree - we wanted to be with whole people - not 1/2 a person.

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TNgirl232 Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 399	Re: Thinking about ex, being short with my wife.. Why put off going to counseling? Are you somehow ashamed that you might need help....what if by putting it off you totally screw the whole thing up beyond repair because she reaches her 'enough is enough' point. And believe me - with women we will put up with a lot but once we've reached that point there is almost no going back. Being passive-agressive you need help figuring out how to communicate (believe me I know) and she is codependent from what you wrote - she needs help understanding that she needs her own life - not just to be a 'moon' to your earth. I know the old saying about finding your other half but my husband and I agree - we wanted to be with whole people - not 1/2 a person.