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needadviceplease1 · 11-09-2009, 05:53 PM

Because I don't think she would agree to go to counseling right now and I don't think I am ready either. I don't think we can afford it right now either.

We do communicate some, it is not as if we never talk about how we are feeling. I bought the book Boundaries in Marriage and she has read through it. We have set up girls and guys nights. She doesn't like the girls nights too much and I have trouble scheduling guys nights but we try. So the boundary thing with her is being worked on.

I just don't know how to tell her "hey I think about my ex a lot even though I don't really want her back, I just am trying not to feel guilty about how it all went down."

11-09-2009, 05:53 PM	#7 (permalink)
needadviceplease1 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 16	Re: Thinking about ex, being short with my wife.. Because I don't think she would agree to go to counseling right now and I don't think I am ready either. I don't think we can afford it right now either. We do communicate some, it is not as if we never talk about how we are feeling. I bought the book Boundaries in Marriage and she has read through it. We have set up girls and guys nights. She doesn't like the girls nights too much and I have trouble scheduling guys nights but we try. So the boundary thing with her is being worked on. I just don't know how to tell her "hey I think about my ex a lot even though I don't really want her back, I just am trying not to feel guilty about how it all went down."