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AZMOMOFTWO · 11-09-2009, 10:46 PM

Wow! Powerful message. I wish my husband had read this post before or even now. We are still together and working through a very bad time. I do think he discovered your final message that the grass is not always greener. He had talked to the OW about a time when they no longer had to sneak around they could have a relationship in the open. When I discovered it I made him leave, so now he could do whatever he wanted and he didn't want that. Too bad the damage had been done. He has a second chance now, but as you pointed out that comes with a price.

But there is hope and if he is patient perhaps we can put back what was at one time so special.

I do get your message but I wonder if you married wife #2 for the wrong reasons and had you waited, wife #3 really should have been wife#2. However, you did find your way to each other so live your life going forward with no regrets, take every day as a gift that you have been given. You have grown as a person and now you are sharing that message so thank you.

11-09-2009, 10:46 PM	#2 (permalink)
AZMOMOFTWO Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 646	Re: Grass not always greener... Wow! Powerful message. I wish my husband had read this post before or even now. We are still together and working through a very bad time. I do think he discovered your final message that the grass is not always greener. He had talked to the OW about a time when they no longer had to sneak around they could have a relationship in the open. When I discovered it I made him leave, so now he could do whatever he wanted and he didn't want that. Too bad the damage had been done. He has a second chance now, but as you pointed out that comes with a price. But there is hope and if he is patient perhaps we can put back what was at one time so special. I do get your message but I wonder if you married wife #2 for the wrong reasons and had you waited, wife #3 really should have been wife#2. However, you did find your way to each other so live your life going forward with no regrets, take every day as a gift that you have been given. You have grown as a person and now you are sharing that message so thank you.