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Old 06-20-2008, 11:50 AM   #15 (permalink)
stumped
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Default Re: Weight ruining marriage

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Originally Posted by mommy22 View Post
I reread my last post and it sounded a little harsh. Sorry. It's just that I have been in your shoes before. I was always thin and then gained a bunch of weight during pregnancy. I couldn't stand the way I felt and I worked really hard to get it all back off. I had ballooned up to a size 16 and am now a 3. I've had to work hard all these years to maintain it but it's been worth it. I also know that I can be a better mother to my children and am limiting health risks by taking better care of myself. The self confidence you'll have will be a draw for your husband. You can do it.
Your post wasnt harsh at all...I would rather people be honest than sugar coat something. I understand that the changes I am making now are going to be lifelong changes. I already have it set in my mind that I will not go back to the heavier weight. I weigh myself everyday (Im an instant gratification person) and once I reach my goal I will continue to weight myself everday and if the scale starts to tip more than 5-10 lbs the wrong way then I will know I need to change something.
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