Re: I do not understand
Tony, you need to read Voivod's thread. He is a recovering alcholic over one year sober and that was a big issue in his life. He has been working on himself and his marriage for over a year. They are seperated still, but moving closer and closer together.
Your w is waiting to see that the changes you've made stick. It is as simple as that. If you pine at her or ask her questions about when are we going to do this, etc. it will turn her away from her.
She needs space and understanding from you as you continue to change. You need to keep showing her you've changed. Actions do speak louder than words. Keep working on yourself. Look at the bright side, you are still in the house together.
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Kindness, Caring, Love and Understanding for Me, for Her and my son. Well not so much for Her anymore.
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