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dobo · 11-10-2009, 01:30 PM

You have 8 years to make up for, and you want her to kiss your ass for finally becoming the man you could have been all along... How fair is that, exactly?

A lot of people who have finally woken up after years of this kind of thing are upset that they stopped doing whatever and their spouse hasn't gotten over whatever. They're not understanding that it takes YEARS to get over YEARS of abuse or neglect. 70 days is a triumph for you but it is a drop in the bucket compared to what she suffered.

11-10-2009, 01:30 PM	#3 (permalink)
dobo Banned Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,423	Re: I do not understand You have 8 years to make up for, and you want her to kiss your ass for finally becoming the man you could have been all along... How fair is that, exactly? A lot of people who have finally woken up after years of this kind of thing are upset that they stopped doing whatever and their spouse hasn't gotten over whatever. They're not understanding that it takes YEARS to get over YEARS of abuse or neglect. 70 days is a triumph for you but it is a drop in the bucket compared to what she suffered.