Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Thinking about ex, being short with my wife..

dobo · 11-10-2009, 02:55 PM

Why are you so reluctant to invest in therapy when it could actually help you? The biggest problem people have with therapy is that they wait to go until the problem is larger than they have the capacity to handle. Since you're questioning being married to the person you are now married to and your guilt is tied directly to what you did with her, your marriage is already at risk.

You can avoid new damage by promptly dealing with the old damage.

11-10-2009, 02:55 PM	#14 (permalink)
dobo Banned Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,423	Re: Thinking about ex, being short with my wife.. Why are you so reluctant to invest in therapy when it could actually help you? The biggest problem people have with therapy is that they wait to go until the problem is larger than they have the capacity to handle. Since you're questioning being married to the person you are now married to and your guilt is tied directly to what you did with her, your marriage is already at risk. You can avoid new damage by promptly dealing with the old damage.