Wow! Sounds like you are in a no win situation with your wife. I really believe there something else going on with your wife other than menopause, but I am no doctor. I would try to get her to see her doctor and you should try to go with her. I am not sure how honest she will be about her problems but it sounds like she is still grieving from her recent lost of her son. I can only imagine how painful it is to lose a child and I hope that I never have to go through something like that. I belive her grief is taking over your marraige and the brunt of her feelings are taken out on you. The Taco Bell incident is not normal a reaction and her reaction is so dramatic.
I would seek some support for yourself if she does not agree to see a doctor. I have feeling that if you continue to push her about working on her problems that she might pull further away from you. Ladies can be so complicated! Good Luck and let me know what happens.
Geneva
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