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Loving Husband · 11-11-2009, 06:57 AM

It took my wife MANY years to see what she is doing. As of right now my wife is just noticing the error of her ways. The same errors your wife is doing. It takes a LONG time.. All I can say is do the best you can for your family as your D is important to be taken care of. Just keep showing your wife the areas where you step up and where she doesn't. It took a lot of text/talks for my wife to "wake" up as I call it. My wife was my 3rd child also. I'm still in the phase of explaining what I want and looking for.. Funny thing for my wife anytime I would in the past try to talk to her I would get one of 2 things from her. She would either blame me for why she does that or she would get angry with me for saying it. Now everytime I say things like that she is starting to take personal responsibility..

11-11-2009, 06:57 AM	#15 (permalink)
Loving Husband Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 1,162	Re: Hi...and could use some advice It took my wife MANY years to see what she is doing. As of right now my wife is just noticing the error of her ways. The same errors your wife is doing. It takes a LONG time.. All I can say is do the best you can for your family as your D is important to be taken care of. Just keep showing your wife the areas where you step up and where she doesn't. It took a lot of text/talks for my wife to "wake" up as I call it. My wife was my 3rd child also. I'm still in the phase of explaining what I want and looking for.. Funny thing for my wife anytime I would in the past try to talk to her I would get one of 2 things from her. She would either blame me for why she does that or she would get angry with me for saying it. Now everytime I say things like that she is starting to take personal responsibility..