I thought about this and this is what I came up with, people say people don't change, but I believe they can. Take my Dad for instance he didn't want kids he divorced my mom when she got pregnant, after a year of separation they got back together then she got pregnant again and they divorced again and got back together again, they have been together over 20 years now. My dad told me that ya he didn't want to have kids but realized that he missed my mom so much that he couldn't live with out her and that he would just deal with the kids. btw told me this several years after i moved out of the house. I was raised with the idea that when you really love someone you make sacrifices to be with that person.... Now question is who is going to be making the sacrifices me or my husband...divorce is not an option for me even if times get horrible
I'm feeling kind of bi polar after reading my post