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i am in the same boat, sex with no passion, twice a month if i am lucky. I have been married 4 yrs but two yrs apart because of the Army. if my wife never has sex again she would probably be all to happy. i now sneak away to masturbate and no longer enjoy sex but i still crave it. my wife is a victim of rape and sexual abuse from previous relationships, and she makes me feel as if I were the rapist and it has been this way from before we were married. by the way we dated for a year before we were married and had sex for the first time on our wedding night, when she actually wanted to skip the sex part that night, i should have known, love is not just blind its blinding.