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Originally Posted by saveme4
thank you for that, unfortunately things arent any better yet. what we have decided to do starting today is go on a break. this doesnt mean we are dating other people because neither of us ant to date anyone else. this is for her so she can be sure about me. we will still talk on the phone, but just not see eachother. i am so scared right now because what if she realizes that she actually doesnt want me. i mean, she says she thinks she does and that she just wants to make sure.
we havent had sex in over 2 weeks and its because she doesnt want to. she says she wants to want to and that its not me and its not that she wants anyone else. i guess sex, or more simply, intimacy, is what we lack as a couple and i hope that this will help get it back. any feedback would be nice.
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Ah....to be 19 again!
Do you have any reason to be scared of? How many times do you see each other now? You know the saying, "absence makes the heart grow fonder"? The time spent apart makes you care for a person even more. Based on what you posted, I'd say the girl loves you so I wouldn't worry if I were you. Just trust her and don't make any foolish things right now that would make her come to a decision that you would regret. Maybe she's just testing you, who knows..