Farmer07

my husband has recently deployed to iraq... before he left, and early into our marriage i did some thing that lost his trust... i had a facebook taht he didnt know about, i didnt do anything wrong, just talk to old friend i had in highschool.. but i didnt tell him about it, because i knew that he wouldnt like it... sine then i have lied to him, about things that arent really a big deal top me but obviously are to him...

and since he has been in iraq, i had lied to him once... but it was about somethign taht he told me specifically NOT TO DO...

i know that lying to him, makes him not want to trust me ever again, but ineed some advice, on how to regain his trust... i havent lied to him snce he found out about this last thing i did... but how do i get him to believe that... i tel him over and over again, and he doesnt believe me, and he tells me all the time that he wants a divorce.. how dio i get him to trust me, or what can i say to him, so that he rally knows that i am not lying anymore... what do i say to him to get him to unerstand taht i really am not lying, and i am honest, and i am trying so hard to make our marriage ggod again...