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dobo · 11-12-2009, 09:33 AM

I'm going to still go with an affair. The hyper interest in different things sex-wise and the avoidance of church (guilt) may indicate someone else... and are you sure she's only reading at night? Is she with you when she is doing it? Nothing going on online?

Are you tying her up and spanking her? I'd suggest giving it a try if you aren't.

I suppose you could talk to her mother and find out when she went through menopause and peri-. Daughters are usually within a year or two of their mothers.

Also, you could mention it to her and ask her if she has any thoughts about the changes and if they could be related to perimenopause. Plant the seed. Then later ask her if she's going to see a doctor about it.

Anyway -- GFs are the best cover for affairs. Sometimes they're the person who sparked the idea and are cheating themselves.

Does your wife get any sort of severance now? Does she get her own spending money? I don't know about this paying her back business... Ask her why she feels you should pay her back. Talk to the woman. If she grumps, she grumps.

11-12-2009, 09:33 AM	#5 (permalink)
dobo Banned Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,423	Re: Heartbroken x2 I'm going to still go with an affair. The hyper interest in different things sex-wise and the avoidance of church (guilt) may indicate someone else... and are you sure she's only reading at night? Is she with you when she is doing it? Nothing going on online? Are you tying her up and spanking her? I'd suggest giving it a try if you aren't. I suppose you could talk to her mother and find out when she went through menopause and peri-. Daughters are usually within a year or two of their mothers. Also, you could mention it to her and ask her if she has any thoughts about the changes and if they could be related to perimenopause. Plant the seed. Then later ask her if she's going to see a doctor about it. Anyway -- GFs are the best cover for affairs. Sometimes they're the person who sparked the idea and are cheating themselves. Does your wife get any sort of severance now? Does she get her own spending money? I don't know about this paying her back business... Ask her why she feels you should pay her back. Talk to the woman. If she grumps, she grumps.