Re: complicated situation
marriage is a long term commitment and there's a lot to learn about each other thru out the journey, I have had similar issues a few years ago when i discovered many things that he had never bothered to tell me, hadnt discussed with me or hid it from me, I was also very mad at him for doing this to me for years but coming to think of it none of it was as serious as cheating or having other women so I let them go. It wasnt easy, we had lots of serious talks both of us were not that good with communication so lots of quarelling, now I am confident that he wouldnt do this again and he knows that I will not tolerate even one such thing anymore. What I m trying to say is, give him a chance to know you even better and give your marriage sometime to see if this will work or not.
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