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preso · 11-12-2009, 11:32 AM

I have a feeling should you start to date or find someone else, she may NOT adjust well to it as that may not be in her definition of friendship or co-parenting.
Personally if my spouse cheated on me, I would not want to be their friend because I like to be able to trust my friends.

It might be a good idea to limit her hanging out at your place as it will be easier for you as well as healthier for you on so many levels.
It will also allow you to keep a safe distance from her
which it sounds like you may need to do.
She sounds very, very immature.

11-12-2009, 11:32 AM	#3 (permalink)
preso Banned Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 2,312	Re: My situation... I have a feeling should you start to date or find someone else, she may NOT adjust well to it as that may not be in her definition of friendship or co-parenting. Personally if my spouse cheated on me, I would not want to be their friend because I like to be able to trust my friends. It might be a good idea to limit her hanging out at your place as it will be easier for you as well as healthier for you on so many levels. It will also allow you to keep a safe distance from her which it sounds like you may need to do. She sounds very, very immature. Last edited by preso; 11-12-2009 at 11:37 AM.