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New Beginnings · 11-12-2009, 12:10 PM

I should just type up a post for these types of threads so I can just copy paste it. It's like a broken record with these ones.

Squirsh, her behavior is text book with a cheater spouse. Of course their not physical. Why the heck else would she tell you otherwise? Think about it, she is STAYING the night at her male friends house, who she also has flirted with on emails that you ARE aware of, had a lengthy phone convo, and probably has numerous other forms of communications with the OM. Let me spell it out as simple as possible. She is cheating on you once again!

At one time I sat and defended my ex and her actions with a male friend who she was living with accross the country form our home. I swore up and down she wasn't capable of it and all the things you say here, she had said as well as many other things protecting her cheating.

So you know she is a cheater already once, now how do you feel about it twice? You willing to give it another go if you had a smoking gun for proof? Your call but the advise I would give you is serve her papers and move on. Oh and my ex also said she wanted nothing from me until she was served, then her whole story changed. Like you I make a good living. It cost me well over a half mil to settle with her and I had all the cards in my deck. In the end I wanted it over so badly I settled instead of the 2-3 year process in court.

11-12-2009, 12:10 PM	#4 (permalink)
New Beginnings Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 126	Re: My situation... I should just type up a post for these types of threads so I can just copy paste it. It's like a broken record with these ones. Squirsh, her behavior is text book with a cheater spouse. Of course their not physical. Why the heck else would she tell you otherwise? Think about it, she is STAYING the night at her male friends house, who she also has flirted with on emails that you ARE aware of, had a lengthy phone convo, and probably has numerous other forms of communications with the OM. Let me spell it out as simple as possible. She is cheating on you once again! At one time I sat and defended my ex and her actions with a male friend who she was living with accross the country form our home. I swore up and down she wasn't capable of it and all the things you say here, she had said as well as many other things protecting her cheating. So you know she is a cheater already once, now how do you feel about it twice? You willing to give it another go if you had a smoking gun for proof? Your call but the advise I would give you is serve her papers and move on. Oh and my ex also said she wanted nothing from me until she was served, then her whole story changed. Like you I make a good living. It cost me well over a half mil to settle with her and I had all the cards in my deck. In the end I wanted it over so badly I settled instead of the 2-3 year process in court.