Originally Posted by Feelingalone

I would just say it goes both ways. Women can overlook the same thing. In fact, I believe some woman have such a romanticized view of what love and marriage are supposed to be that reality - no matter whom they are with - doesn't sit right with them.

It is the struggles that you overcome together that make a marriage last forever. If it was all easy, there would be no divorce. Of course I am not counting abusive situations which have no place in marriage whatsoever.

But alas, our society has become to much me, me, me. And not enough we, we ,we. It is sad, the further we go with technology and communication the more we lack true communication. Look at Facebook (I'm sure I'll get slammed for this), but a lot of what goes on there is like high school on steroids. I'm done with my soap box.