| | Re: how do i change????
Definitely sit down with her and ask her for specific examples and specific behaviours she wants changed. If she can't give you ANY specifics (again, like I said before, some times can be hard to articular but she must be able to give you something) other than "you're different", consider that it might be HER that's different.
Would she be open to that if you suggested it? If you said, "Well, hon, I don't see how I have changed and you can't tell me. Is it possible that this is something you're struggling with, not me?"
Also, how long have you been married? That makes a big difference too.