| | Re: Considering Reconciliation, Looking For Advice
Sorry short on time so I read the short version.
It comes down to what you want. If you believe you want to be married to her, then do everything you can to make it work, MC, Marriage Workshops, read books on being a better spouse.
I believe staying married is much easier than getting divorced.
After months of sepration and a painful period, I gave my wayward wife the option of moving back towards marriage or divorce. We have now been back together for 5 months and it keeps getting better.
In the end it all added up to her going through a mid-life crisis, which is a mental glitch that many suffer for a short period. It is a fog where they do not think clearly, but once out of it things can get much better.
What do you want?