 Re: Stick it out for the kids?
We all contribute to the vibe in the marriage and the vibe changes through the years.
My wife was certain she needed to divorce me after building up resentment and stewing on certain events that she considered to be a huge part of our marriage, they were short moments.
Love making had gotten to a point where it felt awful last year, then 4 months of seperation. But we worked through it, MC, IC for both and Marriage Workshops helped.
Now she has been back for 5 months and we are both happy and in love again.
Resentment is poison to a marriage and we can only control the resentment ourselves by forgiving.
If you want to give up it will certainly fail, but if you want to make it work, I truly believe one person can be the example for a new better marriage.
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