Re: New and need help
I see many red flags including the weight issue. Doesn't he love you for who you are? Beauty is more then skin deep and people's bodies change. Yes being in the best shape is nice but what would happen if a major disease MD or MS fell on you?
Second red flag is what he did on the cam. Emotional affairs take away from relationships.
As far as his depression simply tell him that there is no pressure but you are here when he is ready for you.
The soulmate thing bothers me. If he was your soul mate wouldn't he want to please you no matter how you looked? Wouldn't he be able to talk to you now? Would he have done the things on the internet?
draconis
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