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Old 08-29-2012, 04:04 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Default Re: In Need of Advice---At My Wit's End!

First yes, everything your feeling is perfectly normal and 'on script' for a person that was been recently betrayed.

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Originally Posted by Kathy Jackson View Post
Before anyone asks why don't I just leave, let me tell ya. It's not that easy. I've just recently got my Masters degree, but I have absolutely no work experience. It's hard for me to find a job, so I depend on my husband for everything. I'm looking for work, and I think if I had a job the situation would already be over.
You answered many of your own questions with crystal clarity right there.

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Also, I don't want to break my kids' hearts, and I know a divorce would do that.
Help?
Your children are developing, you and your husband are the blueprint they will emulate as they grow older. Particularly in relationships. The broken hearts are minor compared to the longterm damage caused by raising your children in a dysfunctional household with a cheating husband.
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