| | Re: wife/gf flashing
I can't imagine my wife doing this in a million years. She's only recently been secure enough in her body to be nude around ME, let alone showing off to others. That said, would I mind? No, as long as she only ever did it with me by my side it wouldn't bother me at all. Would it turn me on? Depends on the circumstances but I could see it turning me on in the right context. If she made it clear to me that she was doing it to turn me on, and again, was right by my side.
An example of doing it for some purpose "other" than to turn me on? Sitting on my shoulders at an outdoor concert taking her top off. See, that's being done for the benefit of the band, not me. I would not like that AT ALL.
An example of doing it for me? She's sitting on my lap at a poker game and offers her top in the pot because I'm short on cash and have a good hand. And once I'm broke she immediately suggests that we retire to a more secluded location.