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Chopblock · 06-23-2008, 08:38 AM

He being me, at least, her opinion of me.

Without going into too many irritating details and whining, I feel like I have enough stuff to remember. All bills always paid on time, food gets cooked for her, all needs met. But if I forget to ask so and so some stupid question she wanted me to ask, well then I'm worthless and have to be nagged and reminded to do everything.

I feel like remembering 9/10 things is the equivalent of 0/10. Its all or nothing! Yes occasionally I forget things I was asked (and these requests usually come while I'm in the middle of the last thing).

So women, what do you need to see in order to be convinced your man has improved? I feel I'm fighting a lost battle and even if I remember everything for 6 consecutive months, that first forgetful moment will erradicate everything?

Should I just say "if you are so perfect, YOU handle everything" and wash my hands of it? I get fed up with being the only one that seems interested in improving.

06-23-2008, 08:38 AM	#1 (permalink)
Chopblock Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 233	he's so forgetful! He being me, at least, her opinion of me. Without going into too many irritating details and whining, I feel like I have enough stuff to remember. All bills always paid on time, food gets cooked for her, all needs met. But if I forget to ask so and so some stupid question she wanted me to ask, well then I'm worthless and have to be nagged and reminded to do everything. I feel like remembering 9/10 things is the equivalent of 0/10. Its all or nothing! Yes occasionally I forget things I was asked (and these requests usually come while I'm in the middle of the last thing). So women, what do you need to see in order to be convinced your man has improved? I feel I'm fighting a lost battle and even if I remember everything for 6 consecutive months, that first forgetful moment will erradicate everything? Should I just say "if you are so perfect, YOU handle everything" and wash my hands of it? I get fed up with being the only one that seems interested in improving.