| | Re: Can't forgive or forget the past, but doesn't want to divorce
Sometimes its just hard to let go no matter how wrong the wrong is.
I know I can forgive my WW but I can't accept her affair. I have still taken the steps to filing. I've moved out, but every time the word divorce comes up I shudder a little bit because its not what I ever expected. So for me while its still fresh, and I know whats going to happen it's hard to say I want a divorce to her. So I can see in some situations where people hold on to what they hoped or thought their lives with their spouse would be.
But at some point you gotta pick one. Can't have both.