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iwillsurvive · 11-13-2009, 01:40 PM

While I think it's wonderful that you recognize that youf spouse(s) have had fault in making your relationships work/ not work, it does bother me that you were spending time building a relationship & having an affair with the new woman in your life instead of working on the life, family & marriage you already had.

It sounds like as much as you were both into church and God you didn't give the Lord a chance to heal your marriage and make you stronger, instead you chose to have a relationship outside your marriage because it was what you wanted selfishly.

I don't mean to be harsh, but as someone who has been cheated on it feels a little like you are saying that it's ok to cheat as long as the OW/OM is the "love of your life".

11-13-2009, 01:40 PM	#6 (permalink)
iwillsurvive Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Washington State Posts: 46	Re: Grass not always greener... While I think it's wonderful that you recognize that youf spouse(s) have had fault in making your relationships work/ not work, it does bother me that you were spending time building a relationship & having an affair with the new woman in your life instead of working on the life, family & marriage you already had. It sounds like as much as you were both into church and God you didn't give the Lord a chance to heal your marriage and make you stronger, instead you chose to have a relationship outside your marriage because it was what you wanted selfishly. I don't mean to be harsh, but as someone who has been cheated on it feels a little like you are saying that it's ok to cheat as long as the OW/OM is the "love of your life".